Where have all the lipstick s gone?

It seems that most s nowadays are butch, butch, butch, which works for some people but it's not something I'm usually particularly attracted to. I'd consider myself a lipstick . so where are all the rest? Don't be offended by this question. I honestly want to know. Are these any cities in particular where they group in larger numbers? Or are there any places I should be looking? I just started college and I grew up in a little, bitty town so excuse my ignorance. :D